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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Youtube channel is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You’ll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards.
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4 days ago
4 days ago
Career advice. When I talk to young men graduating college, or men of any age who are trying to change jobs or apply for employment, I am hearing too much entitlement. I am hearing too little confidence and not enough of a grasp of reality when it comes to what it takes to make someone want to hire you, to see your value. “Give me a job" is what I am hearing, especially from younger guys out there. You shouldn’t be thinking “I hope someone will give me a job”. You should approach a job search with the mindset that you need to earn the job. In figuring out your career, or applying for a job, or competing in business, you need show your value. I am going to talk about how to do all of that today. I want to talk about career advice, Gentlemen’s Guides style.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
070 - Nice Guys Finish Last
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
Tuesday Apr 15, 2025
This week I want to talk about the notion of nice guys finishing last. Nice guys finish last? Is that really true? If it is, or isn’t, what guys get to win?
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
072 - Fake Confidence
Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
Tuesday Apr 08, 2025
Confidence. Be confident. That’s what many people will advise you to do you without telling you HOW. That, and women will simply flock to you if you are confident. That sort of advice is everywhere, in every self-help book and from every dating and matchmaking guru. But if you aren’t naturally confident person, how do you get on a path to being so?
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Apr 01, 2025
073 - Bad Boys
Tuesday Apr 01, 2025
Tuesday Apr 01, 2025
Bad boys. Do women really prefer so-called bad boys? What is a bad boy exactly, and is there anything truly good about being considered one, or being one?
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Mar 25, 2025
075 - Making Hard Decisions
Tuesday Mar 25, 2025
Tuesday Mar 25, 2025
Making Hard Decisions. Life isn’t always easy. It isn’t always a walk in the park. Sometimes it is necessary to make difficult, painful, expensive decisions that you would rather not deal with, Sometimes the way forward isn’t clear - there is no option that is clearly superior to the rest and pain free. Is there a way to make the process of making hard decisions easier, or less painful?
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
076 - Daddy Issues
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Tuesday Mar 18, 2025
Daddy issues. This week I am going to tell you why I think YOU should be broadly spreading and propagating daddy issues to women of all ages. That’s what I do! I am very much in favor of the concept of daddy issues, using my definition of the term.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Mar 11, 2025
121 - First Principles
Tuesday Mar 11, 2025
Tuesday Mar 11, 2025
First principles. In this week’s episode, I will join the pantheon of great thinkers known for their contributions to the subject of first principles. I’ll be right up there with the likes of philosophers Aristotle and Rene Descartes, Johannes Gutenberg - the inventor of the printing press, and more modern thinkers on the subject like businessmen Elon Musk and Charlie Munger.
I dig into the question of if there are basic core truths about flirting, dating, and relationships? Are there any principles or modes of thought that are basic and essential to success in dating and relationships.
The Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting is available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405 and everywhere else you buy your favorite books and ebooks
Background:
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Mar 04, 2025
120 - Problems with the Mystery Method
Tuesday Mar 04, 2025
Tuesday Mar 04, 2025
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405)
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
119 - Power and Restraint
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
Tuesday Feb 25, 2025
Today we have another great episode for you on the subject of power. Gaining power in life, and exercising restraint. Just because you have power, it doesn’t mean you have to use, or abuse it. Don’t be a bully. Don’t act like a tyrant. Use restraint. Be respectful.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405)
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
118 - Transparency
Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
Tuesday Feb 18, 2025
Transparency. How much should you share with the various people in your life about what you are thinking, planning, and doing? How do you strike the best balance between not being overly secretive, and risk having trust issues with the women and other people in your life, and being foolishly too open and possibly revealing too much?
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/