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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Youtube channel is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You’ll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards.
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In a couple prior episodes, I mentioned that I wanted you to conduct yourself in a way in this pandemic that when you look back, you will be proud of everything you did over the whole duration of it. You’ll be proud of how you conducted yourself at every step. I still mean every word of that suggestion, but I feel like I need to expand on how I think about having a sense of pride more broadly.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Tuesday Dec 30, 2025
Independent thinking. What are you? Are you a democrat, republican, progressive, conservative, liberal, socialist, communist, right, left, or evangelical? Is that all that there is? Do you have to fit within these labels? Is there another way? What are you? Who are you? Please be careful about letting other people’s labels define you. I feel quite the opposite about the whole subject. In this week’s episode, I make the case for and, extol the virtues of, independent thinking.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
Tuesday Dec 23, 2025
I recently was reading about how winter is when depression hits the largest number of people, and this is the first time in most of our lifetimes that we have been dealing with something like the pandemic over that normally gloomy winter period. So, some people out there are hurting more than normal due to everything that is going on out there, and some of those folks might be you, or someone you care about. So today I want to talk about this issue from a slightly different viewpoint. I want to talk about the idea of quitting under adversity.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Tuesday Dec 16, 2025
Respect. Genuine respect. Today I want to talk about how key, how crucial, paying respect is to success in your process of meeting and connecting with great women. I mean showing respect to the lady. I mean showing respect to her family and friends.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Handling Conflict. Conflicts, disagreements and disputes are part of life, and always will be, no matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you situation is in life. How to best handle conflict, anger, and disagreement using key principles from the book is what we dig into in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Women, and everyone, loves to see someone who is continuously improving, who is on a trajectory to good things in life. Women love it!!!
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Men: Should you or should you not get married? Is someone trying to pressure you into marriage now? I talk a lot about a man’s various responsibilities in life in the book and on this podcast because a major part of my thesis is that is vital to success in many areas, including success with women. But where does marriage fit into that philosophy? We will take a thorough look at this crucial subject, something that you are very likely to encounter at some point in your life, in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
In this episode I want to talk about dating safety - specifically for men. There is plenty of information and advice available online and elsewhere about safety concerns for women, and rightfully so. Guys need to be careful out there as well. Men can be robbed, or cheated, or harmed. We’ll cover all of the basics, plus some other things that aren’t so well known that can cause you real problems.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community? No, right? If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no. In this episode we are going to dig into what is unfortunately a very common problem, toxic online behavior by some men directed toward women on dating websites and in dating apps.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 04, 2025
Tuesday Nov 04, 2025
Monogamy. Or not? Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not? Is it ok to cheat, or is it not? We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/