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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Youtube channel is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You’ll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards.
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7 hours ago
083 - Gold Diggers
7 hours ago
7 hours ago
After watching The Tinder Swindler documentary on Netflix and seeing how the ladies victimized got called gold diggers by some when their story broke, I got thinking about real gold diggers and how you - yes you - might have to deal with such a situation in your own life. If you haven’t seen that documentary, you can Google “Tinder Swindler” and read the articles that pop up to get the gist of what happened. Why do I say gold digging might be something you have to deal with in your own life? Once people will see how well you're doing, you might have ladies interested in you just for the money, and for the security and lifestyle that you offer. Today I want to talk about how to manage, or better yet, avoid, such situations.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
055: Stacking Wins
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
Tuesday Jun 24, 2025
I am working with a young man right now who is stuck. He is stuck in more than one way. He is fresh out of college, and like many, struggling to find work. He is putting off moving forward with his girlfriend of 5 years due to his self-perception of a lack of progress toward things like having a substantial and stable income and owning a home. I think what I am advising him to do might help a lot more people out there, so that is what we will work on in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
082 - Lessons Learned - Joe Rogan 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
I very intentionally don’t normally discuss topical or news items in this podcast, but in rare cases when I feel I have insights from a particular event that might be useful for you, I’ll speak up. Today is one of those days. As of when I am recording this, February 5th, 2022, popular podcaster and celebrity Joe Rogan got into a great deal of trouble, rightfully, over comments that he made in the past. I have a few thoughts I want to share about this, not to pile on Joe Rogan, but to learn from his mistakes.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
080 - MORALE BOOST #5
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
We are two years in to the COVID-19 pandemic, and it’s time for another morale boost. In my own life, I continue to see people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. Cracking under pressure, that isn’t us. Yielding or compromising on our standards and principles, that isn’t us. We find a way to thrive in all conditions. But, again, it doesn’t hurt for us to huddle up from time to time to remind ourselves of that.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
062 - MORALE BOOST #4 - Staying Strong and Thriving
Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
It’s time for another morale boost. I wish it wasn’t the case, but it is needed. I am, like I am sure all of you are, disappointed that the COVID-19 pandemic is still dragging on and affecting so many people and the economy. In my own life, I am seeing too many people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. That isn’t what we do, is it? We find a way to thrive in all conditions. But it doesn’t hurt for us to huddle up from time to time to remind ourselves of that.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Apr 13, 2021
039 - Finally!
Tuesday Apr 13, 2021
Tuesday Apr 13, 2021
Finally, the greatest moment in flirting history has arrived! Children will be reading about this day in their history books 100 years from now. Why? The Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting book is available for sale on Amazon!
Don’t worry, this podcast won’t be a long, boring ad for the book. There is plenty of meat on the bone this week for content, just like normal. But I want you to know that I wrote this book for YOU! For ladies listening in, or guys who are already all set in life for a relationship, I wrote this book for men you might know and care about who are struggling to find a great girlfriend, wife, or partner, and who might benefit from the material! I want people to be happy in all aspects of your life, including having success meeting great women. In this week’s episode, I want to tell you what you get with the book, what is inside. And I want to explain why I feel this book is something special, and something that needs to be in the hands of guys who are struggling with meeting women, or dating, or finding a great match.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405)
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Feb 02, 2021
029 - About Recent Events
Tuesday Feb 02, 2021
Tuesday Feb 02, 2021
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in early 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material is available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides

Tuesday Nov 03, 2020
016 - MORALE BOOST #2
Tuesday Nov 03, 2020
Tuesday Nov 03, 2020
Do not crack. DO NOT START FALLING APART as this pandemic drags on, Do not break discipline AT ALL, no matter what your circumstances are. It is November 3rd 2020, and we are 8 months into the COVID-19 pandemic. Yes, there are still millions of people out there suffering various health, financial, physical and emotional impacts. Maybe you have family or friends suffering, and you feel for them. Maybe the person suffering is you. We ALL miss normality. Yes, there might be a second wave for the next several weeks. Yes, parts of the world are going back into some form of lockdown again to try to better weather the storm.
Being a ROCK, even in tough and trying times, no matter how long any crisis lasts, is core to our approach and philosophy. Doing whatever it takes to not just survive, but to thrive, is core to our beliefs. The people you care about need you more than ever to support them, to be absolutely reliable, and to be a strong positive example.
This pandemic will end soon enough. Maybe by the end of 2021 things will be much better. Maybe 2022, I don’t know. What I do know is that the worst of this won’t last forever. Not matter HOW LONG it takes, when this mess is over, and you think back over it down the road, you want to be PROUD of how you conducted yourself EVERY DAY OF IT. You want to be proud of how you acted from start to finish. You want to be proud of how you held down your job or your business, and how well you treated and showed up and supported your family, friends, coworkers, colleagues, and customers. You want to be proud of how you were someone that your family and friends, and your neighbors, and your community could count on. You didn’t complain, or run and hide, or mistreat people around you. You went HARDER AT what you needed to do EVERY DAY because that is what tough times demand of people like you. You’re a leader!
You also want to be proud of how you improved yourself during this time, how you advanced toward your goals DESPITE the environment turning bad. You find ways to thrive no matter what. And that is part of what I mean in the book and this podcast when I keep talking about how you think, and act, and conduct yourself forms much of the basis for - is the source of - that natural confidence that you will develop that people, including women, will find SO appealing. That is the same mindset and approach that makes you such as asset to those around you, and that sets you on a good path toward prosperity. People are naturally drawn to that type of consistent and effective positivity.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Oct 13, 2020
013 - Self-improvement Series: Best Things About Dwayne Johnson
Tuesday Oct 13, 2020
Tuesday Oct 13, 2020
In this episode we explore all the best things about Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson, looking back over the course of his whole life. We do this to see what we can learn from his example relevant to our topic, and involving personal conduct, relationships, family, and life.
This is another installment in the self-improvement series that we showcase as part of this channel and podcast. Excellence (in all ways) is a vital part of our whole approach to being the best man that you can be. You work on that personal excellence every day, and one of the several outcomes that flow from making that effort is increased confidence. That increased confidence is something you automatically will project in how you walk, how you talk, how you conduct yourself, and how you treat other people. As you do what you need to do to improve every day, little by little and step by step, you will see that will draw people to you. They’ll feel your ever-increasing positive energy. People like having that around them, including the ladies. They’ll feel drawn toward you, and want to be a part of your world.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Episode 008 - Best Things About Michelle Obama
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020
Tuesday Sep 08, 2020