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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Youtube channel is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You’ll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards.
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Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Tuesday Dec 09, 2025
Handling Conflict. Conflicts, disagreements and disputes are part of life, and always will be, no matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you situation is in life. How to best handle conflict, anger, and disagreement using key principles from the book is what we dig into in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Tuesday Dec 02, 2025
Women, and everyone, loves to see someone who is continuously improving, who is on a trajectory to good things in life. Women love it!!!
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Tuesday Nov 25, 2025
Men: Should you or should you not get married? Is someone trying to pressure you into marriage now? I talk a lot about a man’s various responsibilities in life in the book and on this podcast because a major part of my thesis is that is vital to success in many areas, including success with women. But where does marriage fit into that philosophy? We will take a thorough look at this crucial subject, something that you are very likely to encounter at some point in your life, in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
Tuesday Nov 18, 2025
In this episode I want to talk about dating safety - specifically for men. There is plenty of information and advice available online and elsewhere about safety concerns for women, and rightfully so. Guys need to be careful out there as well. Men can be robbed, or cheated, or harmed. We’ll cover all of the basics, plus some other things that aren’t so well known that can cause you real problems.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Tuesday Nov 11, 2025
Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community? No, right? If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no. In this episode we are going to dig into what is unfortunately a very common problem, toxic online behavior by some men directed toward women on dating websites and in dating apps.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Nov 04, 2025
Tuesday Nov 04, 2025
Monogamy. Or not? Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not? Is it ok to cheat, or is it not? We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
How do you ask for sex? Whether you are just dating someone, or its a lady friend that you are interested in, or you are in a relationship but not getting enough sex, how do you ask for it? How do gentlemen bring the subject of sex up in a nice way, one that isn’t rude, a turn off, or a way that makes you look bad.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
From men jumping at the first pretty face to dealing with women who want to be in your wife's or girlfriend's place in your life, we have you covered in this week's episode about dealing with various common Traps and Pitfalls of dating success.
If you are continuously improving yourself like we call for and describe in the book, if you are always improving as a man every day, win after win, small step after small step, one goal achieved after another, then a lot of positive things start happening more often and on a more consistent basis for you. You have better relationships at work, in business, in your personal life, and of course, with women. Interviews start going our way. Job promotions start happening more often. You are closing more sales. You're getting more customers and clients. There is prosperity and success all around!
That’s all great, right? Buying the book and listening to all of these podcasts is paying off! But there are some potential traps I need to tell you about. Ones that I need to warn you about as you head down that path.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Let your confidence soar whether you are naked or clothed!
In this episode we talk about men’s grooming secrets. Some things may be obvious and second nature to you, and some may be quite unfamiliar. But all of them will help you walk around with the right amount of confidence as you are out there meeting ladies, and otherwise going about your daily life. We’ll go over everything as per usual, to be as thorough as possible. If you think you are too fat, too short, too bald, too whatever, we are going to talk about how to think about all of that as well.
This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
In this episode we talk about the pool of available relationship candidates through a lens or perspective called "10-80-10" that I am borrowing from an entirely unrelated discipline - police work and law enforcement. That comparison might sounds nuts, but hear me out. I think looking at the dating and relationship problem domain through different lenses can be helpful and informative. It can help you make any needed adjustments to your attitude and approach to meeting someone special. And it can help you think about what you have observed in your own experience with dating, and what is available out there.
This is another installment in our self-improvement series where we highlight different ways to improve yourself, to be the best person you can be, and therefore more attractive to the opposite sex. As you continue to improve every day, bit-by-bit and step-by-step, you will see that will draw people to you as your confidence increases and you project that great positive energy.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/