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Learn to meet women in genuinely confident and high-quality ways, both in person and online. The presenter is the author of the book Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon.com). Episodes will have a mix of extra, or special case, flirting ideas and material that didn’t fit in the book, as well as topical content and illustrative examples that further illustrate key principles from the book. Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this podcast and the associated Youtube channel is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You’ll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards.
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Tuesday Dec 05, 2023
122 - Flirting Ethics
Tuesday Dec 05, 2023
Tuesday Dec 05, 2023
Today we are going to look into the subject of the ethics of flirting and dating. What sort of things are good or not so good when it comes to meeting women: your intentions, how you act, the decisions you have to make along the way, your treatment of women, and generally how you think about the whole subject. We’ll do this by talking about some specific, real-world examples of issues you are likely to encounter as you navigate that world. I talk about some real issues here, including dating more than one woman at a time, and when is it ever okay to cheat.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday May 09, 2023
096 - History of FLIRTING 2 - Victorian Era Flirting Cards
Tuesday May 09, 2023
Tuesday May 09, 2023
In meeting women, how can you be bold, yet respectful, non-threatening, cool, and fun— all at the same time? In this episode, we will take another look back at flirting history during a specific timeframe the late 1800s through around 1930 when flirting or acquaintance cards were in use. I think there are things we can learn from that very different time - both good and bad - toward our goal.
Link to Mr Alan Mays’ wonderful and interesting collection of acquaintance and flirting cards on Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/photos/aemays/sets/72157626967453736/
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides

Tuesday May 02, 2023
095 - The History of FLIRTING
Tuesday May 02, 2023
Tuesday May 02, 2023
For the past few weeks I, your exalted leader, alongside some other leading scholars and top scientists in the flirting world have been in the GGTF Research laboratory creating the definitive guide to the history of flirting. Many snacks were consumed in this pursuit, several naps were taken, and - I sadly report - some lives were lost. But I am here to report that we are done, and are presenting our findings in this:
Episode 009 of the Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting - The History of Flirting!
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/

Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
082 - Lessons Learned - Joe Rogan 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
I very intentionally don’t normally discuss topical or news items in this podcast, but in rare cases when I feel I have insights from a particular event that might be useful for you, I’ll speak up. Today is one of those days. As of when I am recording this, February 5th, 2022, popular podcaster and celebrity Joe Rogan got into a great deal of trouble, rightfully, over comments that he made in the past. I have a few thoughts I want to share about this, not to pile on Joe Rogan, but to learn from his mistakes.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
080 - MORALE BOOST #5
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
Tuesday Jan 25, 2022
We are two years in to the COVID-19 pandemic, and it’s time for another morale boost. In my own life, I continue to see people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. Cracking under pressure, that isn’t us. Yielding or compromising on our standards and principles, that isn’t us. We find a way to thrive in all conditions. But, again, it doesn’t hurt for us to huddle up from time to time to remind ourselves of that.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/guidetoflirting
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguidetoflirting
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Nov 09, 2021
069 - Matchmaking
Tuesday Nov 09, 2021
Tuesday Nov 09, 2021
Matchmaking. This week I want to talk about what matchmaking services are, should you use such services, and what would be their value to you given you have the Gentlemen’s Guide to Flirting book. For those considering a career in matchmaking or relationship coaching, should you provide such services once you have mastered the book or adapted some of its techniques into your own process.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
064 - Real vs Digital Life
Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
Tuesday Oct 05, 2021
This week I want to talk about something very current - a very modern problem - and that is striking some sort of productive and healthy balance between your online or digital activities and real life. The draw and appeal of things like Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, Instagram, and online gaming can be so powerful to many folks that it might affect the quality of their their overall lives.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
062 - MORALE BOOST #4 - Staying Strong and Thriving
Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
Tuesday Sep 21, 2021
It’s time for another morale boost. I wish it wasn’t the case, but it is needed. I am, like I am sure all of you are, disappointed that the COVID-19 pandemic is still dragging on and affecting so many people and the economy. In my own life, I am seeing too many people cracking under this continued stress and pressure. That isn’t what we do, is it? We find a way to thrive in all conditions. But it doesn’t hurt for us to huddle up from time to time to remind ourselves of that.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Jul 27, 2021
054 - 1-30 Rating Scale Redux
Tuesday Jul 27, 2021
Tuesday Jul 27, 2021
Today we are going to look back at a women’s beauty rating scale invented by comedian Patrice O’Neal. Patrice introduced this concept in response to a listener’s question on his Black Philip radio show several years ago. We’ll knock the ugly, misogynistic parts off of Patrice's rating scale and see if it still has any value in today’s modern world.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB

Tuesday Jul 20, 2021
053 -Conducting Yourself to Best Advantage
Tuesday Jul 20, 2021
Tuesday Jul 20, 2021
This week I want to share several pearls of wisdom and best practices around communications and conducting yourself to your best advantage out there in the world. Too many people go through life not realizing how vital effective communications and healthy relationships are. Don’t let that be you. This advice will work for you for cultivating and sustaining healthy relationships at work, in business, and with your family and friends.
Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (available on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/dp/1736798405) and anywhere else you find your favorite books.
Consider the book your complete textbook. The content on this channel and the podcast is all free and is intended to expand upon the book, and give you even more practical examples. You'll end up being like the Navy SEALs of flirting, so cool and professional, prepared, naturally confident and effective that you know you can handle any flirting, dating, or social situation to world class standards. There will be great supplemental and supporting material released on this channel at least once per week. The same material will be made available as the "Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting" podcast.
Join the conversation at these links, or comment below!
Twitter: https://twitter.com/gentsguides
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gentsguides
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg2kbvrYHtbsWgcGOKtR5zA/
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2VrArM2UpWX3Kr7jyHI6NB